Do you feel that, no matter how hard you try, some things in your life never change?
When you're not in your shoes everything in your life starts to fall apart
This experience invite you to release patterns that no longer serve you, rediscover the joy of living, and reclaim the freedom to be who you truly are.
Have you tried everything...
Perhaps you try hard to build healthier relationships, only to find yourself living through the same stories all over again.
Perhaps you feel responsible for everything and everyone, that you’re never doing enough, or that no matter how much you achieve, something still feels missing.
Maybe you find yourself repeating behaviors you promised yourself you would never repeat. Or perhaps you notice that, despite all your efforts, certain conflicts keep resurfacing in your relationships, your family, or even your professional life.
And at some point, you find yourself asking:
Why does this keep happening to me? Why is it so hard to change?
And there's a feeling that's hard to explain, like something is out of place.
What if what you’re experiencing today isn’t shaped only by the choices you make, but also by the way you’ve learned to relate to life?
You try to understand, search for answers, and work on yourself. But sometimes, rationally understanding what is happening isn’t enough to help you do things differently.
After all, not everything that influences our choices is visible. There are bonds, family loyalties, beliefs, and patterns we learn long before we become aware of them.
Without realizing it, we may continue repeating stories that didn’t begin with us, trying to occupy places that aren’t ours, or carrying responsibilities that were never ours to bear.
But how can you recognize what you still can’t see?
How can you stop repeating old stories and begin building a life that truly makes sense to you?
There is an order in relationships and in life. When you are not in your shoes, you begin to compensate: you assume what is not yours, carry what does not belong to you, try to balance what does not depend on you.
You can even give a lot. Adapt. Make an effort. But it still does not find balance.
It's not about doing more — it's about being in your shoes.
And, little by little everything is disorganized.
Systemic Intelligence invites us to look beyond the immediate problem. To recognize patterns, understand our bonds, and become aware of the place we occupy in our relationships.
Not to find someone to blame, but to expand our awareness, take responsibility for what is ours, and make room for freer choices.
When you shift your inner position, you begin to recognize what belongs to you and what doesn’t. And your life begins to fall back into place.
Without excessive effort. Without constant exhaustion. Because you’ve stopped occupying places that were never yours to begin with.
No excessive effort. No constant wear. Because you stopped occupying places that are not yours.
When it becomes clear
Another way of living begins to appear without having to cancel itself out, without
Carry what is not yours.
Systemic Intelligence is more than just understanding
Here, change happens in practice in the way you position yourself, how you respond, how you live in your daily life.
Life doesn't just happen in meetings. It happens in relationships, in decisions, in routine. That's where everything gets organized.
You stop repeating patterns
You stop carrying what's not yours
You position yourself more clearly
You feel more fulfilled, lighter, more whole, and with more energy to live life to the fullest.
You build more balanced relationships with your family, your partner, your colleagues.
Your life begins to make more sense, and you feel more at peace and happier.
"Lighter relations. Real presence. A life that begins to make sense."
This is what happens when you stop occupying places that are not yours.
Who conducts this process
Kris Gitali Flower
I am a woman who chose to look within and take the reins of my own life.
For a long time, I felt that something was out of place, even though I understood so much about myself. I graduated in Physiotherapy, but it was through travelling and deepening my studies of the body, the mind, and what lies beyond them that I realised understanding alone wasn't enough. I already knew so much. And yet, certain things kept repeating themselves.
It was along this journey that I discovered something essential: it's not just about awareness. It's about finding your way back to your rightful place.
Today, I guide people through processes where this change happens in practice. Not as someone who stands above them, but as someone who is walking this path too.
I study human behaviour, the body, relationships, and the systems that shape our lives in depth. But more than that, I live these principles in my everyday life. I've come to understand that growth isn't about pushing harder, but about repositioning yourself. It's about no longer carrying what isn't yours, recognising your place, and learning to stand firmly in it.
Today, I lead Raízes as a space where you don't have to perform or try to become someone different. Instead, it's a space where you can return to your rightful place and begin to bring your life back into balance from there.
If you feel like you've understood a lot, but you're still living the same standards maybe it's not a lack of trying. Maybe it's missing a direction, a clear map that lights your way. And that's what we're going to work on here.
For whom this
Process makes sense
01 ·You’re already aware that something needs to change, but don’t know which path to take.
02 · You live in difficult relationships or that are always repeated in the same way
03 · You feel lonely even though you are accompanied
04 · You feel a lack of direction as if life has no clear axis
05 · You realize that something is out of place, but you don't quite know what
If you recognize yourself in this... There is a way out of this pattern and that's what I'm going to show you now.
If you recognize yourself in this... There is a way out of this pattern and that's what I'm going to show you now.
Roots
A structured process for you to make this movement consciously and sustain it in your life.
This is not a theoretical process. It is a space where you begin to reposition yourself in practice.
03
months of process
Time to cross and settle
07
Group Meetings
Live, with recording available
03
Individual sessions
Close and personalized follow-up
Throughout the process, you learn to reposition yourself without assuming what is not yours, without canceling yourself, without repeating the same patterns.
A safe space to reorganize your life from you.
Roots Mentoring
Roots
3 months process
- 7 live group meetings
- 3 individual sessions
- Access to recordings
- Close monitoring
€ 1200,00
€ 3 x 400,00
If you feel like it's time to get out of this pattern and really reposition yourself, this is the time.
There is a way back for you.
Maybe it's not a lack of awareness.
Maybe it's a lack of place.
And when you find yours, your life begins to get organized.
